She Comes First

"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." --AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner--sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm--oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

“"Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon." (Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine)”

"The sex manual getting the most attention these days is SHE COMES FIRST: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner... With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, he encourages men through an act that many find mystifying." -- New York Times Sunday Book Review

"The man who made oral sex into an art form." -- Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D, Professor of Sociology, University of Washington and author of Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years

"If you're at all confused about how to use your tongue or fingers to make a woman come, consider reading the unparalleled work of genius She Comes First by Ian Kerner. The advice is extremely practical and hands on--he will literally walk you through every step of the way, with things like the Jackson Pollock lick and the Elvis Presley snarl." -- GQ

"Is it too late to nominate Kerner for some sort of Nobel prize?" -- Blogcritics.com

"The title says it all. This is always my first recommendation for any guy who has found female sexuality a mystery, because it gives very specific, useful tips for the female anatomy. Trust me, reading this book will definitely change how you view sex and brush you up on your cliteracy." -- Emily Morse, Sex with Emily podcast

"This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!" -- Time magazine

"Perhaps it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First is just the sort of talking point we need to get us started. " -- The Guardian

"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." -- AskMen.com

"Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they're not satisfied." -- Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City

"Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon." -- Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine

"Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women's legs!" -- Cake

"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" -- Playgirl

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again. Can you say "viva la vulva"? Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.

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