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She Is Not Your Rehab

One Man’s Journey to Healing and the Global Anti-Violence Movement He Inspired

Author: Matt Brown  

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Cycles repeat until one person has the courage to say, 'This stops with me.'

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Cycles repeat until one person has the courage to say, 'This stops with me.'

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Cycles repeat until one person has the courage to say, 'This stops with me.'

At My Fathers Barbers, Mataio (Matt) Faafetai Malietoa Brown offers men a haircut with a difference: a safe space to be seen and heard without judgement.

From his barbershop chair, Matt has inspired a new generation of New Zealand men to break free from the cycle of abuse — and those men have in turn inspired him and his wife, Sarah, to create the global anti-violence movement, She Is Not Your Rehab.

In this raw and unflinching book Matt shares his own story and those of his clients, of surviving family violence and abuse, and how they were able to find healing and turn their lives around. He introduces the people and concepts that have helped him heal, and gives readers the tools they need to begin their own journeys.

She is Not Your Rehab demonstrates the power of vulnerability and honesty in addressing pain and shame, and shows how anyone can empower themselves by taking responsibility for their own healing.

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About the Author

Mataio (Matt) Faafetai Malietoa Brown is an internationally acclaimed barber and hair artist and the founder of My Fathers Barbers, the barbershop where men go to heal. His dedication to reviving the craft of barbering has seen him teach and demonstrate all over the world. While he’s cut everyone from All Blacks to members of Wu-Tang Clan, Matt believes his true calling is his work to redefine society’s view of masculinity — and to help end the cycle of domestic violence affecting families throughout the world.Matt, a New Zealander of Samoan descent, together with his wife Sarah (Ngapuhi/Te Rarawa), founded the anti-violence movement She Is Not Your Rehab. In 2019, he outlined the kaupapa of She Is Not Your Rehab in a powerful TEDx Talk that continues to inspire today. Matt regularly collaborates with community and government organisations in New Zealand and abroad and hosts a men’s anti-violence support group from his barbershop, enabling men to access free therapy and support. He is the creator and facilitator of a barbering programme taught in men’s prisons throughout New Zealand and a Corrections NZ patron. He is also an ambassador for the It’s Not OK campaign with the Ministry of Social Development. He was a 2020 Westfield Riccarton Local Hero and a finalist for the Kiwibank New Zealand Local Hero of the Year award. A proud father to three, he and Sarah reside in Christchurch, New Zealand.

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Product Details

Publisher
Penguin Group (NZ) | Penguin
Published
2nd July 2021
Pages
288
ISBN
9780143775980

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CUSTOMER REVIEWS

13 Jun, 2024
A must read, very highly recommended!
By Daniella
08 Mar, 2024
Great book
By Christine
29 Dec, 2022
Anything or anyone that can change the lives of others for the better and break bad habits either by verbal, written or actions needs to be commended. This book does just that.

Manaaki te atua me te aroha nui. Hari tau hou to you and your ātaahua Whanau. Praying 2023 brings you an abundance of Love, blessings, SUCCESS,  happiness and health.
 
Arohanui ❤
By Mark
21 Sep, 2022
Amazing read!
By Kayla
20 Sep, 2022
Very moving life story full of brilliant ideas to turn a life on its head. So inspiring and real. Highly recommend.
By Gin
10 Aug, 2022
So well written!
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15 Jul, 2022
Yes great boo, highly reccomend
By Sophie
07 Jul, 2022
Stunning
By Cherie
05 Feb, 2022
Incredible book! Will be getting my husband to read who experienced a horrible up bringing hopefully this book will help
By Lucy
14 Jan, 2022
Awesomely written
By Winona
06 Jan, 2022
Really enjoyed this book. What an inspirational, respectful man! Proud of him for breaking the cycle and doing so well in life!
By Richelle
02 Jan, 2022
Very well articulated and eloquently written. Highly recommend book. Real and down to earth with polynesian/NZ cultural perspectives. go for it!
By Bradyn
28 Dec, 2021
Great read!
By Shannon
24 Nov, 2021
This was a powerful book, which I think is a must read for all those who have had a tough childhood and those who work in the social service sector.
Matt has offered some really awesome insights and ideas. A book I am giving to my clients.
By Steve
18 Oct, 2021
Brilliant - I am still trying to finish reading the book. I remember when I first picked it up, I felt as if it were a bible so I almost wanted to pray before I was about to read it, just cause I know the book ? was deep on many levels - it’s helped me put a lot of things in perspective. Thank you Matt and Sarah Brown for this piece, totally amazing! ?
By Francis
17 Oct, 2021
Excellent. He speaks to your soul. An invaluable read. Thank you!
By Megan
09 Oct, 2021
Uplifting, heartbreaking, soulful, honest, raw but most of all…Healing ??
By Rewa
23 Sep, 2021
Finally a book that relates and easy to understand. I have recommended this to colleagues I work with
Well worth it
And thank you for sharing your story
By Karina
09 Sep, 2021
Its is the most easiest book to read. The information was so valuable. Every adult male and female should read this book. I totally loved the simplistic and relevant information. Thank you so much Matt for writing your story, you are amazing. xxx
By Connie
05 Sep, 2021
While I am not the target audience, it was a really good insight into teh issues of domestic violence and how its perpetuated. Great its going to all prison inmates. May need to also be available at all womens refugees for the females to read to help them get out of toxic, abusive relationships
By Jill
30 Aug, 2021
Excellent book highly recommended
By Lisa
30 Aug, 2021
Great material, and journey.
By John
27 Aug, 2021
Amazing book. Thank you for delving deep and yr commitment to change.
By Te
24 Aug, 2021
Fantastic book
By Becks
20 Aug, 2021
Could not put it down, love this book! This is just what all of NZ needs right now, I think everyone can take something away from this book.
By Tineka
19 Aug, 2021
Every home should have a copy of this book!
By Robyn
17 Aug, 2021
I thought it was insightful and a great read - suitable for all ages especially young adults
By Jetcharm
16 Aug, 2021
Thank you for sharing your story so openly and bravely. This book will help many people heal and will save lives. We can only break the cycle of violence by being real and Matt is real and challenges thinking, it also provides excellent practical advice. Nga mihi Matt and Sarah you are truly a humble and selfless couple xx
By Leanne
13 Aug, 2021
This book shares wisdom that can contribute to much-needed societal change in Aotearoa. We need to get this book into the hands of all kiwis.
By Georgina
13 Aug, 2021
Incredible thought provoking and insightful book. I couldn't put it down!
By Shelley
13 Aug, 2021
Amazing!! Best read in a very long time xoxo
By Rachel
13 Aug, 2021
Fantastic book... Thoughtfully written, raw and honest
By Heather
13 Oct, 2022
Well written
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